--- product_id: 1499616 title: "Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery" price: "122.27 DT" currency: TND in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.tn/products/1499616-black-swan-the-twelve-lessons-of-abandonment-recovery store_origin: TN region: Tunisia --- # 4.6/5 star rating from 466 heartfelt reviews Paperback format for easy, tactile reading 12 transformative lessons in abandonment recovery Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery **Price:** 122.27 DT **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Summary > 🖤 Embrace your healing journey — don’t miss the Black Swan’s transformative wisdom! ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery - **How much does it cost?** 122.27 DT with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.tn](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/1499616-black-swan-the-twelve-lessons-of-abandonment-recovery) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Key Features - • **Proven Impact:** Thousands have found solace and progress through its relatable, heartfelt lessons. - • **Compact & Portable:** Paperback design lets you carry your personal guide to healing anywhere. - • **Clinically Endorsed:** Recommended by licensed mental health counselors for diverse clients seeking growth. - • **Healing Through Storytelling:** An allegorical narrative that deeply resonates with emotional and spiritual recovery. - • **Part of a Transformative Series:** Complements other acclaimed works by Susan Anderson for a full abandonment recovery journey. ## Overview Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery is a bestselling paperback self-help book by Susan Anderson, offering 12 powerful lessons through an allegorical story to guide readers through emotional healing from abandonment. Clinically recommended and highly rated, it’s a compact, impactful tool for anyone seeking personal growth and recovery from loss. ## Description "Black Swan is a symbol for healing, a spirit guide for overcoming the woundedness of abandonment." Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery is a self-help tool, a supplement for personal growth. Black Swan provides twelve lessons for healing from the loss of love. It is presented as an allegorical tale of a child who meets a magical black swan after she is abandoned in the forest by her father. This story within a story includes the author’s own experience with loss. The book provides emotional and spiritual healing to those going through heartbreak, loss, and abandonment. Review: Great Author and Series of Abandonment Books... - I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. This author has 3 books (including The Journey to Abandonment and The Abandonment Workbook) that go together which I have given to about 60% of my clients, young/old, male/female, and they have all loved these books, getting so much out of them and really growing and healing. Here is what one of my clients wrote to me about this book in the series. Book Review: I thoroughly enjoyed reading the book The Black Swan. I connected with the messages taught throughout the book and was able to relate them back to myself and to my life. I loved how the author portrayed these messages in a story format, which better helped me to paint a picture in my mind. I learned many lessons by reading this book. The main lesson that has stuck with me is feeling the importance of my own existence. The book talked a lot about facing my separateness and feeling the essence of being alive and alone, just for my own sake. I am missing this in my life. I am known to be “extroverted”, which I am, but many times I realize how uncomfortable I am when I am solely by myself. I like to be surrounded by other people, I like there to be noise in my environment, I like to stay busy. I don’t really enjoy being alone with nothing keeping me busy. I have mentioned this in therapy but I do enjoy more chaotic environments. Its weird because I don’t like the way my body feels in chaos, when I go into fight or flight or when I get anxious, I don’t enjoy it. But my brain seems to be wired to feel more comfortable in it. I feel more normal in chaos than I do when everything is still. Stillness makes me feel not needed or unproductive, just because I’m giving time to myself and not to another human being. The other thing that sticks out is the book continuously says “just for my own sake”. It talks about when I’m sitting in stillness my thoughts and what I am doing are just for me. I don’t think I ever do this. I am ALWAYS thinking about another person. If I see a commercial on TV for a new movie, I think about how much my mom would love it and how much she’ll love if I see it with her. I don’t think about if I’ll like it. And this goes on with many things in my life. I continuously think about others and their wants and needs before my own. This has lead to problems in my relationships because eventually I come to a point when I do want my needs to be heard and they’re not. I have gotten so used to pushing what I need aside for the sake of the other person. If I feel a need, sometimes I will try and express it and if its met with a poor response I just let it go. But this leaves me feeling empty and resentful for not sticking up for myself. I am slowly learning to put myself first. Since reading this book, I try to refocus my mind when I feel it thinking about someone else’s needs. I focus it on my needs and how is this situation making me feel? It is hard because I’ve pushed what I need to the side for so long that it is my first instinct to just forget what I need in the situation. However, I do think I am making progress and I am proud of myself for that. Review: Abandonement Explained, Healing Follows - This little book is incredible! Never have I read anything that describes my inner most feelings more than this book does. It begins innocently enough, a father and his little girl taking a walk through a wooded forest together. But then the father lifts his daughter up onto a large rock that is in the middle of a river. He tells her he is going to be right back. She implores him to not be long, to please come back. He assures her that he will. She watches his red shirt disappear among the trees. She waits and waits, so sure he will be back. But he doesn't return. Before long, it gets dark. Night has fallen and the little girl is alone, on the rock. She manages to climb down and eventually is able to make her way back to her home. She is certain that her parents and family must be worried about her absence. But as she approaches the house, she sees them through the windows, sitting around the dinner table, laughing and enjoying themselves. She is unable to believe what she is seeing. She realizes she has been abandoned. Then the day arrives when she watches her family loading their furniture and belongings into a moving van! They are cheerful and excited. She is in disbelief! She watches as the van disappears down the road. She is completely alone. Years pass and we learn that this little girl is living in a type of shelter for children. She is withdrawn and completely unable to interact with any of the other children or the staff. She cries herself to sleep every night, not in her own bed, but in a corner of a rag heap, where she finds what comfort she can. Then a staff member lovingly carries her to her bed. But even then, the little girl will have dreams that cause her to awake in tears. Quoting from the book: "Many more months go by and finally an event occurs which feels familiar and real. She hears a woman crying, long and deep, from a distance. Soon it fills her ears, awakening her whole body to its tones. Finally a woman appears in the doorway, wiping her eyes. She approaches the little girl, crouching down and taking her by the hand. 'Come with me, little one,' says the woman wiping tears from her eyes with hem of her long flowing skirts. Her voice is gentle. "The little girl does not see the woman clearly, for her eyes are not used to focusing. But she follows along in the vague indentation of softness and allows herself to be taken, letting her hand stay curled inside the woman's. She can smell her warmth and feel the gentleness wrapped around her hand." This is an allegory intended to depict abandonment of all kinds and the way to healing from it. To a person who hasn't experienced the devastation of abandonment, this may sound like a modern day tale of Hansel and Gretel. But for those who know, this is a book that may speak to you unlike any other. Susan Anderson truly understands the hopelessness and fear that accompanies abandonment. Her workbook, The Abandonment Recovery Workbook, is very helpful as well. It digs deeper into the process of healing and I highly recommend it. I appreciate so much that Susan Anderson had the insight from her own personal experiences to write Black Swan. I have read it multiple times and shared copies of it with others. It is truly a great little book. ## Features - Paperback ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #251,969 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #1,061 in Love & Romance (Books) #1,125 in Emotional Self Help #5,962 in Personal Transformation Self-Help | | Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 466 Reviews | ## Images ![Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71mlDJ-RWvL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great Author and Series of Abandonment Books... *by S***L on December 2, 2021* I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. This author has 3 books (including The Journey to Abandonment and The Abandonment Workbook) that go together which I have given to about 60% of my clients, young/old, male/female, and they have all loved these books, getting so much out of them and really growing and healing. Here is what one of my clients wrote to me about this book in the series. Book Review: I thoroughly enjoyed reading the book The Black Swan. I connected with the messages taught throughout the book and was able to relate them back to myself and to my life. I loved how the author portrayed these messages in a story format, which better helped me to paint a picture in my mind. I learned many lessons by reading this book. The main lesson that has stuck with me is feeling the importance of my own existence. The book talked a lot about facing my separateness and feeling the essence of being alive and alone, just for my own sake. I am missing this in my life. I am known to be “extroverted”, which I am, but many times I realize how uncomfortable I am when I am solely by myself. I like to be surrounded by other people, I like there to be noise in my environment, I like to stay busy. I don’t really enjoy being alone with nothing keeping me busy. I have mentioned this in therapy but I do enjoy more chaotic environments. Its weird because I don’t like the way my body feels in chaos, when I go into fight or flight or when I get anxious, I don’t enjoy it. But my brain seems to be wired to feel more comfortable in it. I feel more normal in chaos than I do when everything is still. Stillness makes me feel not needed or unproductive, just because I’m giving time to myself and not to another human being. The other thing that sticks out is the book continuously says “just for my own sake”. It talks about when I’m sitting in stillness my thoughts and what I am doing are just for me. I don’t think I ever do this. I am ALWAYS thinking about another person. If I see a commercial on TV for a new movie, I think about how much my mom would love it and how much she’ll love if I see it with her. I don’t think about if I’ll like it. And this goes on with many things in my life. I continuously think about others and their wants and needs before my own. This has lead to problems in my relationships because eventually I come to a point when I do want my needs to be heard and they’re not. I have gotten so used to pushing what I need aside for the sake of the other person. If I feel a need, sometimes I will try and express it and if its met with a poor response I just let it go. But this leaves me feeling empty and resentful for not sticking up for myself. I am slowly learning to put myself first. Since reading this book, I try to refocus my mind when I feel it thinking about someone else’s needs. I focus it on my needs and how is this situation making me feel? It is hard because I’ve pushed what I need to the side for so long that it is my first instinct to just forget what I need in the situation. However, I do think I am making progress and I am proud of myself for that. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Abandonement Explained, Healing Follows *by H***N on May 11, 2019* This little book is incredible! Never have I read anything that describes my inner most feelings more than this book does. It begins innocently enough, a father and his little girl taking a walk through a wooded forest together. But then the father lifts his daughter up onto a large rock that is in the middle of a river. He tells her he is going to be right back. She implores him to not be long, to please come back. He assures her that he will. She watches his red shirt disappear among the trees. She waits and waits, so sure he will be back. But he doesn't return. Before long, it gets dark. Night has fallen and the little girl is alone, on the rock. She manages to climb down and eventually is able to make her way back to her home. She is certain that her parents and family must be worried about her absence. But as she approaches the house, she sees them through the windows, sitting around the dinner table, laughing and enjoying themselves. She is unable to believe what she is seeing. She realizes she has been abandoned. Then the day arrives when she watches her family loading their furniture and belongings into a moving van! They are cheerful and excited. She is in disbelief! She watches as the van disappears down the road. She is completely alone. Years pass and we learn that this little girl is living in a type of shelter for children. She is withdrawn and completely unable to interact with any of the other children or the staff. She cries herself to sleep every night, not in her own bed, but in a corner of a rag heap, where she finds what comfort she can. Then a staff member lovingly carries her to her bed. But even then, the little girl will have dreams that cause her to awake in tears. Quoting from the book: "Many more months go by and finally an event occurs which feels familiar and real. She hears a woman crying, long and deep, from a distance. Soon it fills her ears, awakening her whole body to its tones. Finally a woman appears in the doorway, wiping her eyes. She approaches the little girl, crouching down and taking her by the hand. 'Come with me, little one,' says the woman wiping tears from her eyes with hem of her long flowing skirts. Her voice is gentle. "The little girl does not see the woman clearly, for her eyes are not used to focusing. But she follows along in the vague indentation of softness and allows herself to be taken, letting her hand stay curled inside the woman's. She can smell her warmth and feel the gentleness wrapped around her hand." This is an allegory intended to depict abandonment of all kinds and the way to healing from it. To a person who hasn't experienced the devastation of abandonment, this may sound like a modern day tale of Hansel and Gretel. But for those who know, this is a book that may speak to you unlike any other. Susan Anderson truly understands the hopelessness and fear that accompanies abandonment. Her workbook, The Abandonment Recovery Workbook, is very helpful as well. It digs deeper into the process of healing and I highly recommend it. I appreciate so much that Susan Anderson had the insight from her own personal experiences to write Black Swan. I have read it multiple times and shared copies of it with others. It is truly a great little book. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Profoundly Helpful and Quite Beautiful *by S***F on June 17, 2021* This is the first book I've read in a long time where I just couldn't put it down. I read the entire thing in about 90 minutes and then wanted to read it again! There is definitely a loose (but important) connection between the 12 lessons and the 12 Steps of Recovery found in AA or other programs like that. But so much more poetic, insightful, interesting and creative!! There is a lot of overlap between "Abandonment Recovery" and "Love Addiction" recovery. But this is more about self-empowerment and healing, and less about the group or a God. I suppose the present moment can become something like a higher power. This is really an outstanding contribution to our world and it far exceeded my expectations. ## Frequently Bought Together - Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery - The Journey from Abandonment to Healing: Revised and Updated: Surviving Through and Recovering from the Five Stages That Accompany the Loss of Love - The Abandonment Recovery Workbook: Guidance through the 5 Stages of Healing from Abandonment, Heartbreak, and Loss --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.tn/products/1499616-black-swan-the-twelve-lessons-of-abandonment-recovery](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/1499616-black-swan-the-twelve-lessons-of-abandonment-recovery) --- *Product available on Desertcart Tunisia* *Store origin: TN* *Last updated: 2026-09-22*