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# How To Set Up An FLR: A Couple's Guide to Female Led Relationships

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Review: Everyone should own this book, FLR or not - This is, without a doubt, one of the best books about FLR's - or relationships in general - that we have ever had the privilege to read. Mistress Ivey's tone is warm, friendly, and relatable. She has obviously lived what she preaches, and it shows. From the beginning, she stresses the importance of communication, openness, honesty, and trust, and recognizes how very hard they are to achieve sometimes while still being essential. She gives real-world examples of things you may be worried about and how to address them. She relates many points back to her own personal life, and isn't afraid to tell us about her own concerns/missteps/successes in her personal relationship, in order to help us, the readers, grow along with her. She truly recognizes the emotional aspect of setting up a female-led relationship in a world where it is simply assumed that the male is the leader by default. She talks about guilt and fear, and how to overcome them, Her patient, caring tone, combined with her positive and respectful attitude and her thorough coverage of the material, helped clarify so many things for me, and I'm so grateful for having read this book. There are several quizzes in this book. DO THEM ALL WITH YOUR PARTNER! These are not just useless Cosmo quizzes. The discussion that will come from it is invaluable. Start with the first chapter. Figure out the relationship style that you want, and find out what your partner wants too. This makes sure that you'll be on the same page for everything else that follows. Do all the quizzes, and make sure you each answer separately. Talk about the similarities, and how you can focus on those, and talk about the differences, and see if they're things that you can work out - you may not be as far apart as you think! It's so hard sometimes to open up about topics like relationships and sex, and the questions presented here really help get the ball rolling and make sure that you're working together instead of against each other. After the fundamentals and the quizzes, the book moves into different examples of things to do in an FLR, as well as adding aspects of BDSM if you so desire. The examples are wonderful, and if anything, Mistress Ivey's writing style becomes even more personable and direct. Reading this book is a breath of fresh air in a world of mostly mediocre (or worse) books on FLR's. I have read through this book several times now. My slave has read through it even more. He constantly refers back to it, going back to different chapters, finding new things and bringing them to my attention. We've worked through more FLR issues with this one book alone than with everything else we've ever purchased, combined. And still we find new things that help us even more. This book has improved our relationship in a way that nothing else has. The only concerns I have are extremely minor and not even worth knocking a tenth of a star off, let alone a whole star. First, as Mistress Ivey says, her relationship is further down the M/s continuum than most others, so some of the examples may be a little extreme for first-time people. For anyone who finds this to be the case, remember, as she says, that any examples she gives aren't requirements to be followed. Some things may take time to grow into; some things may never end up being your cup of tea. And that's okay. Take what you need and leave the rest. Second, the ending is a little abrupt - a conclusion of some sort would have been appreciated. And finally, there are some spelling and syntax errors (as you can tell simply by looking at the cover image). Having an editor look it over would really help get it to a truly professional level. (I gladly offer my slave's services for this - he has an extensive background in editing. If this is something you would like, Mistress Ivey, please let me know so a new edition can be even more perfect.) Simply put, there is no reason you should not own this book. If you're in an FLR, buy this book. If you've never been in one but are considering it, buy this book. Even if you're not interested in FLR, but are looking to work through some issues in the relationship (and would like some interesting ideas for the bedroom!), buy this book. If I could give it ten stars out of five, I would. BUY THIS BOOK.
Review: Helping to discover eachother - This book really helped me understand and open my eyes to all the possibilities. It's written in a way that makes you comfortable and encourages you to learn and grow with your partner. I think our relationship will flourish and grow as we put our agreement together.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #1,190,945 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #4,207 in Marriage |
| Customer Reviews | 4.4 4.4 out of 5 stars (373) |
| Dimensions  | 5.25 x 0.47 x 8 inches |
| ISBN-10  | 1490311033 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1490311036 |
| Item Weight  | 8 ounces |
| Language  | English |
| Part of series  | Female Lead Relationships |
| Print length  | 186 pages |
| Publication date  | June 6, 2013 |
| Publisher  | CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Everyone should own this book, FLR or not
*by C***L on November 26, 2015*

This is, without a doubt, one of the best books about FLR's - or relationships in general - that we have ever had the privilege to read. Mistress Ivey's tone is warm, friendly, and relatable. She has obviously lived what she preaches, and it shows. From the beginning, she stresses the importance of communication, openness, honesty, and trust, and recognizes how very hard they are to achieve sometimes while still being essential. She gives real-world examples of things you may be worried about and how to address them. She relates many points back to her own personal life, and isn't afraid to tell us about her own concerns/missteps/successes in her personal relationship, in order to help us, the readers, grow along with her. She truly recognizes the emotional aspect of setting up a female-led relationship in a world where it is simply assumed that the male is the leader by default. She talks about guilt and fear, and how to overcome them, Her patient, caring tone, combined with her positive and respectful attitude and her thorough coverage of the material, helped clarify so many things for me, and I'm so grateful for having read this book. There are several quizzes in this book. DO THEM ALL WITH YOUR PARTNER! These are not just useless Cosmo quizzes. The discussion that will come from it is invaluable. Start with the first chapter. Figure out the relationship style that you want, and find out what your partner wants too. This makes sure that you'll be on the same page for everything else that follows. Do all the quizzes, and make sure you each answer separately. Talk about the similarities, and how you can focus on those, and talk about the differences, and see if they're things that you can work out - you may not be as far apart as you think! It's so hard sometimes to open up about topics like relationships and sex, and the questions presented here really help get the ball rolling and make sure that you're working together instead of against each other. After the fundamentals and the quizzes, the book moves into different examples of things to do in an FLR, as well as adding aspects of BDSM if you so desire. The examples are wonderful, and if anything, Mistress Ivey's writing style becomes even more personable and direct. Reading this book is a breath of fresh air in a world of mostly mediocre (or worse) books on FLR's. I have read through this book several times now. My slave has read through it even more. He constantly refers back to it, going back to different chapters, finding new things and bringing them to my attention. We've worked through more FLR issues with this one book alone than with everything else we've ever purchased, combined. And still we find new things that help us even more. This book has improved our relationship in a way that nothing else has. The only concerns I have are extremely minor and not even worth knocking a tenth of a star off, let alone a whole star. First, as Mistress Ivey says, her relationship is further down the M/s continuum than most others, so some of the examples may be a little extreme for first-time people. For anyone who finds this to be the case, remember, as she says, that any examples she gives aren't requirements to be followed. Some things may take time to grow into; some things may never end up being your cup of tea. And that's okay. Take what you need and leave the rest. Second, the ending is a little abrupt - a conclusion of some sort would have been appreciated. And finally, there are some spelling and syntax errors (as you can tell simply by looking at the cover image). Having an editor look it over would really help get it to a truly professional level. (I gladly offer my slave's services for this - he has an extensive background in editing. If this is something you would like, Mistress Ivey, please let me know so a new edition can be even more perfect.) Simply put, there is no reason you should not own this book. If you're in an FLR, buy this book. If you've never been in one but are considering it, buy this book. Even if you're not interested in FLR, but are looking to work through some issues in the relationship (and would like some interesting ideas for the bedroom!), buy this book. If I could give it ten stars out of five, I would. BUY THIS BOOK.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Helping to discover eachother
*by R***B on June 21, 2025*

This book really helped me understand and open my eyes to all the possibilities. It's written in a way that makes you comfortable and encourages you to learn and grow with your partner. I think our relationship will flourish and grow as we put our agreement together.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Good place to start!
*by J***S on October 24, 2014*

Very interesting and informative... gives you a lot to think about if you are considering this as an option for your relationship.

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