--- product_id: 16911293 title: "First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors: Modern-Day Secrets to Being Desired, Cherished, and Adored for Life" price: "142.33 DT" currency: TND in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.tn/products/16911293-first-kill-all-the-marriage-counselors-modern-day-secrets-to store_origin: TN region: Tunisia --- # First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors: Modern-Day Secrets to Being Desired, Cherished, and Adored for Life **Price:** 142.33 DT **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors: Modern-Day Secrets to Being Desired, Cherished, and Adored for Life - **How much does it cost?** 142.33 DT with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.tn](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/16911293-first-kill-all-the-marriage-counselors-modern-day-secrets-to) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description If you want to repair your marriage or build an enduring, fulfilling relationship, step away from the therapist, put down the magazine, and pick up this book. Laura Doyle’s marriage was in trouble. After five years, her husband had become distant and seemed checked out of their relationship, preferring watching TV to making love. There were frequent fights that ended with tense silences. Marriage counseling made their problems worse—each session seemed to reinforce the feeling that she and her husband were just too far apart. Desperate to avoid divorcing the man she loved, Laura tried something different: she started talking to happily married women, some for more than 15 years. What she discovered shocked her. Everything she had heard in marriage counseling was wrong. Laura realized there are basic truths that can help women maintain loving, intimate marriages, such as: The happiness of your relationship is up to you! What men want most of all is to be treated with respect. Treat your man with respect (even if you aren’t feeling it), and he will treat you with love and care. Your man wants to know he has your trust. Give it to him, and he’ll realize you are special . . . because you will be! After seeing her own marriage transform, Laura set out to help other women do the same. In First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors , you’ll learn Laura’s “Six Intimacy Skills,” which have been used by over 150,000 women who have turned their unhappy marriages into blissful unions. First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors will put you on the path to having the sweet, satisfying marriage you want with the man you love! Review: GET THIS BOOK NOW, LADIES! - I've never been so open in an desertcart review, but here goes... I've been married to my second husband for 2 1/2 very rocky years. We were both totally love struck while we dated. As soon as we got married, major problems began. Fighting, yelling, passive aggressiveness, selfishness, bitterness, resentment, insults... I could go on and on, but chances are if you're reading this you have a similar list. I've questioned where my sweet, thoughtful, attentive man went. Where's the guy I dated?!? Does he not love me? Did he ever?? We tried marriage counseling and that didn't help. We read Love Languages, Venus/Mars, and several other of the most popular relationship books that had glowing reviews. Still no lasting improvement. Every day felt like a struggle. We were both exhausted, cranky, and I was getting depressed. There was lots of crying and contemplating divorce. I believed we had tried everything and that my husband simply would never treat me the way he had in the beginning. I'm not certain how I stumbled across First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors (although the catchy title did stand out), but I began to read the reviews. I will admit to scoffing at most of them. I was especially incredulous when I read the woman's review saying the book had greatly improved her marriage in one day... One day??! I wondered if the author had 30 of her friends to write up fake positive reviews. But I ordered the Kindle version on a curious whim. I had nothing left to lose but a miserable marriage and a jerk of a husband after all. Or so I thought. Throughout the entire first chapter, I actually laughed out loud and exclaimed, "This is bull$***," several times. Why is this author so excited to impart her "wisdom?" What kind of scam IS this? What she says is possible is just. not. possible. for my relationship. So let's say I was a bit skeptical :) Let me now assure you I'm a real person, with real kids, real laundry, real insecurities, real problems, and real emotions. Because you lovely, lovely women reading this may roll your eyes so hard you can see your brain stem when I get this next statement out... I had only read the first two skills the author writes about when I decided to experiment on my husband, who by the way is out of town so we were only talking via phone, and it worked. IT WORKED. Within five minutes of me following the book's suggestions (remember, I'm not even halfway through), I heard a tenderness in my husband's voice I haven't heard in months and months. I wondered if that was wishful thinking on my part. Nope! After we got off the phone, my husband sent a text to say he misses me. Whaaaa???? Misses me?? He misses me! If your relationship is in the poor condition mine has been in, you know that was momentous. Ahhhh, he misses me! Please do not interpret my review to mean the necessary changes will instantly "feel natural." You may have to white knuckle it for a bit, but... If you're like me, you've been white knuckling your relationship for a while so you can totally do it. The skills are simple. They are actually enjoyable. They make more sense than anything I've ever heard or read about marriage. Oh! And here's a plus: Your husband doesn't have to read it for it to be effective :) I think this is a fabulously empowering book for women with husbands/boyfriends who wonder why their men are irritable, uncaring, selfish, lazy, inattentive, and angry. "Why won't my husband stop looking at his phone and pay attention to me??" You CAN transform yourself and your relationship. P.S. To the wife who left the review saying her marriage improved in one day: I'm sorry I doubted you! Congrats and may you live happily ever after :) Review: First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors - Hi, I agree Marriage counselors may not help. They don't know you and may not be happy in their marriage also and focusing on the problems is a negative way to deal with them. Focusing on what is positive in the relationship may bring more good into the relationship. Excellent book for women who control their husband too much like a child and they are the critical mom instead of a loving wife. Letting the husband do things himself/let him plan dates/let him make mistakes without pointing it out/let him feel worthy/praise/good enough/valuable and not like everything he does is wrong/mistake may keep a marriage together and restore it to happiness/wholeness. To me the controlling person has fear and is a perfectionist...is codependency. Worrying about what others think/people pleasing/critical is not good. The husband needs respect and treated like an adult. I could not relate at first...could not see how woman could treat their spouse like this...in a demeaning way. Woman may not realize how their anxiety is causing the controlling. To me people may not be compatible so divorce. Men want respect...women want love. To treat the spouse like a kid is bad or to ignore them is not good or treat kids with more attention than the husband is not good. I enjoy watching friends...wife/husband..treat each other respectfully and as a team/have fun etc.. Marriage should not be "hell", but heaven on earth at least in their house away from the world. I don't agree Men always should handle the money or always say yes to sex if not feeling well. I prefer separate accounts and sex when right time. Guys should not be treated like kids/garbage and expect a marriage to thrive. The grass is not always greener on the other side. A controlling wife that goes to another marriage and controls also may lose that marriage. People need to learn how to really love/treat others like they want to be treated. Acting feminine is good, but giving up all control is not good. Best wishes. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #1,307,475 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #4,690 in Marriage | | Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 307 Reviews | ## Images ![First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors: Modern-Day Secrets to Being Desired, Cherished, and Adored for Life - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/91ESRs-f0ZL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ GET THIS BOOK NOW, LADIES! *by M***E on September 20, 2015* I've never been so open in an Amazon review, but here goes... I've been married to my second husband for 2 1/2 very rocky years. We were both totally love struck while we dated. As soon as we got married, major problems began. Fighting, yelling, passive aggressiveness, selfishness, bitterness, resentment, insults... I could go on and on, but chances are if you're reading this you have a similar list. I've questioned where my sweet, thoughtful, attentive man went. Where's the guy I dated?!? Does he not love me? Did he ever?? We tried marriage counseling and that didn't help. We read Love Languages, Venus/Mars, and several other of the most popular relationship books that had glowing reviews. Still no lasting improvement. Every day felt like a struggle. We were both exhausted, cranky, and I was getting depressed. There was lots of crying and contemplating divorce. I believed we had tried everything and that my husband simply would never treat me the way he had in the beginning. I'm not certain how I stumbled across First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors (although the catchy title did stand out), but I began to read the reviews. I will admit to scoffing at most of them. I was especially incredulous when I read the woman's review saying the book had greatly improved her marriage in one day... One day??! I wondered if the author had 30 of her friends to write up fake positive reviews. But I ordered the Kindle version on a curious whim. I had nothing left to lose but a miserable marriage and a jerk of a husband after all. Or so I thought. Throughout the entire first chapter, I actually laughed out loud and exclaimed, "This is bull$***," several times. Why is this author so excited to impart her "wisdom?" What kind of scam IS this? What she says is possible is just. not. possible. for my relationship. So let's say I was a bit skeptical :) Let me now assure you I'm a real person, with real kids, real laundry, real insecurities, real problems, and real emotions. Because you lovely, lovely women reading this may roll your eyes so hard you can see your brain stem when I get this next statement out... I had only read the first two skills the author writes about when I decided to experiment on my husband, who by the way is out of town so we were only talking via phone, and it worked. IT WORKED. Within five minutes of me following the book's suggestions (remember, I'm not even halfway through), I heard a tenderness in my husband's voice I haven't heard in months and months. I wondered if that was wishful thinking on my part. Nope! After we got off the phone, my husband sent a text to say he misses me. Whaaaa???? Misses me?? He misses me! If your relationship is in the poor condition mine has been in, you know that was momentous. Ahhhh, he misses me! Please do not interpret my review to mean the necessary changes will instantly "feel natural." You may have to white knuckle it for a bit, but... If you're like me, you've been white knuckling your relationship for a while so you can totally do it. The skills are simple. They are actually enjoyable. They make more sense than anything I've ever heard or read about marriage. Oh! And here's a plus: Your husband doesn't have to read it for it to be effective :) I think this is a fabulously empowering book for women with husbands/boyfriends who wonder why their men are irritable, uncaring, selfish, lazy, inattentive, and angry. "Why won't my husband stop looking at his phone and pay attention to me??" You CAN transform yourself and your relationship. P.S. To the wife who left the review saying her marriage improved in one day: I'm sorry I doubted you! Congrats and may you live happily ever after :) ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors *by S***A on June 3, 2015* Hi, I agree Marriage counselors may not help. They don't know you and may not be happy in their marriage also and focusing on the problems is a negative way to deal with them. Focusing on what is positive in the relationship may bring more good into the relationship. Excellent book for women who control their husband too much like a child and they are the critical mom instead of a loving wife. Letting the husband do things himself/let him plan dates/let him make mistakes without pointing it out/let him feel worthy/praise/good enough/valuable and not like everything he does is wrong/mistake may keep a marriage together and restore it to happiness/wholeness. To me the controlling person has fear and is a perfectionist...is codependency. Worrying about what others think/people pleasing/critical is not good. The husband needs respect and treated like an adult. I could not relate at first...could not see how woman could treat their spouse like this...in a demeaning way. Woman may not realize how their anxiety is causing the controlling. To me people may not be compatible so divorce. Men want respect...women want love. To treat the spouse like a kid is bad or to ignore them is not good or treat kids with more attention than the husband is not good. I enjoy watching friends...wife/husband..treat each other respectfully and as a team/have fun etc.. Marriage should not be "hell", but heaven on earth at least in their house away from the world. I don't agree Men always should handle the money or always say yes to sex if not feeling well. I prefer separate accounts and sex when right time. Guys should not be treated like kids/garbage and expect a marriage to thrive. The grass is not always greener on the other side. A controlling wife that goes to another marriage and controls also may lose that marriage. People need to learn how to really love/treat others like they want to be treated. Acting feminine is good, but giving up all control is not good. Best wishes. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ I've read a lot of relationship books & Laura's are the best. They are practical *by L***A on May 25, 2015* While I'm not finished with the book yet, I am thrilled to share what has happened already by handing over the finances to my husband (one of the suggestions in the book & in The Surrendered Wife): I feel relieved of a major stress & worry, I suddenly feel as though I have more free time & energy on my hands, my husband took our family out on a hike yesterday (a big deal for us!), & he wants to take us all to Mexico this December (my dream vacation)! Magic! I've read a lot of relationship books & Laura's are the best. They are practical, informative, easy to read & implement & have immediate, positive results. I am so glad I trusted the advice and started with the finances (along with learning the phrase "Whatever you think"). He already seems happier & lights up when I say it & when I smile & trust his ideas - no matter how big or small. I have faith in this book & it's ability to save & improve marriages all over the world. 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