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# The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands

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The #1 National Bestseller In her most provocative book on marriage advice yet, America's top radio talk show host, Dr. Laura Schlessinger, urgently reminds women that to take proper care of their husbands is to ensure themselves the happiness and satisfaction they deserve in marriage. Women want to be in love, get married and live happily ever after, yet countless women call Dr. Laura, unhappy in their marriages and seemingly at a loss to understand the incredible power they have over their men to create the kind of home life they yearn for. In the Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands , Dr. Laura provides real-life examples and proven relationship solutions on how to wield that power to attain all the sexual pleasure, intimacy, love, joy, and peace desired in life. Dr. Laura's simple principles have changed the lives of millions. Now they can change yours. Why are so many women unhappy in their marriages, and what simple steps can they take to reclaim the love and joy they deserve? Understanding Men: Learn why men are simple creatures who yearn for a woman’s acceptance and approval, and how to use that knowledge to build a stronger connection. Love and Respect: Discover how to stop nagging and start showing the appreciation and respect that will make your husband want to give you the moon and stars. Communication in Marriage: Move beyond pointless arguments with direct communication strategies that cut through the frustration and get to the heart of what you both need. Intimacy in Marriage: Reclaim the sexual pleasure and intimacy you both desire by understanding what truly makes a man feel loved, wanted, and connected to his wife.

Review: A must for both, cross-gender communication! - Ladies steer the ship carrying the emotional health of their relationship, the man helps to maintain. In my opinion this book helps layout practical concepts in a simple manner most ladies and gentlemen understand. Men tend to fix things, shovel coal, and say what’s on their mind (if it matters to them). Women often talk in code, and try to decode what the man is saying. If he's a plain talker, this often leads to misunderstanding the significance of what he said, and too often completely missing the point. Unfortunately wars have been started over missunderstandings. An adopted son (at 14, from my ex-wife’s twin), did not listen to my advice about sex. A young lady in high school picked him out to be hers, they had a child, and nine years later another. Seriously I tried working with him, but he said "she was not who he wanted to spend his life with." They were living together and began fighting regularly, irrational. After I read this book, I decided I was working with the wrong half of the equation, and I offered it to her. Six months later they were married. If you'd like more detail read on. I bought this book for myself and wish I read it when first published, but I still had much to learn. The stories are simple testimony from real people, the concepts are priceless. Everyone should be happy but not everyone is ready. This book teaches about cross-gender communication. Men should read it to understand how they should be treated, with love and compassion of course. I tell them not to give it to their wife, because she may be insulted, and never read it. She should already be perfect just the way she is, never criticize her (she’ll do enough of that on her own), and just randomly pick something you love about her to acknowledge the Goddess inside her. I tell them to simply place the book on their nightstand. If she asks, just say you heard the book can help you be a better partner, husband, friend, man. That you really love her, and want to be the best partner you can be. If she asks to borrow it tell her no Sweetheart, you’re perfect just as you are, don’t change a thing. If she continues, suggest reading it together, and she can help you understand it. I tell the woman to read the book, so they learn how to care for their pet. Honest people can work things out, and an honest man is a simple creature don’t try to change him. Just love him, help him understand how to help you, and recognize the God in him for the good things he does to please you. I was diving into every nuance by the last chapter, but found it (for a man) to be the most boring chapter of the book. She takes a really long time (talking code) to say the simple truth “If he wants ‘it’ just give it too him.” But seriously ladies and gentlemen a little sexual tension is healthy to spur the youthful exuberance of anticipation, be sure your up on “The Joy of Sex” and other more sensual or spiritual aspects of relationships. Intimacy should never be used as a tool or withheld from a good man doing his best. Remember a good man is a simple creature and he’s hard wired for simple pleasures a happy wife (I cannot express in words how hard a man will work to please his wife, even if she is less than supportive of his needs), happy life, good food, and GREAT SEX!!! Conversation and making memories are wonderful but be sure our basic needs are met. We will give our lives to you. The woman is in charge of her happiness, telling her husband (asking is much better) what she needs help with. If she is not happy, it is because she’s either with a narcissist/sociopath, or she hasn’t told the engineer she needs more coal in the engine room. (Please excuse my sarcasm, he might not be the right person. Or she is the sociopath. Character flaws do not discriminate. Note: Men and Woman sociopaths have two traits in common. They lack empathy, and take pleasure manipulating others. They are some of the nicest people you don't want to know!) The young lady quickly began applying concepts she learned in the book. Six months later they were getting married. I asked him, how’s life, he said "I couldn’t be happier." Each of four years after he said the same thing, and I stopped asking. Originally I read about 100 reviews from ladies here on desertcart. One lady's parents had a perfect marriage 40 years of bliss, still glowing after all those years. But her marriage was not as good. She read the book, and two weeks later her marriage was perfect! They say men love you like a dog, kick’em and they keep coming back for more. Hoping for love, but tolerating abuse to a point. They also say women are like cats, chase them, and they will run away. Sit still and they will come lay in your lap, and purr... nice happy life... 😇 Another lady doesn’t like the author at all, loaths her like a zombie (my adaptation), but her marriage wasn’t doing so well. A friend loaned her the book, out of respect for her friend she’s read it. Two weeks later her marriage was fine... 😇 If it’s the right person it might be the wrong time. If it’s the wrong person it’s always the wrong time. Good cake doesn’t need frosting, and frosting doesn’t fix the cake. Though a little doesn’t hurt. It’s who’s inside that counts. From the first page, “this book is not to fix all relationships... If you’re suffering from addiction, abuse, or affairs save yourself and get out.” I’m told Phil Donahue put that on the last page of his book, backwards thinking Phil. I much prefer how Laura S. ended her book, emphasizing in every way she could think of “If your man needs loving, give him prime choice, and top shelf loving!” You never want him looking for love in all the wrong places. To a healthy man food and great sex are basic needs we live for. Yes we also enjoy many other interests, but nature has endowed us with a very strong need for placing our lives, our love, and our essence in the hands of a woman who cares for us. We can fix things we understand, but emotional eddies are far too complex for most men. Too many don’t understand this simple truth. So men are abused, get frustrated, and most are outclassed whenever a woman uses emotional manipulation on them. This my friends are not the type of woman you want. Read David Deida’s “The way of the superior man” and Corey Wayne’s “The 3% man.” Western sociopolitical manipulation has perverted how men and women treat each other, by filling our media with divisive concepts, and bad role models. Simply to weaken our family structure and make sheep easier to herd. The strength and foundation of our world, depends on the love, compassion, and peace we have in our hearts. Love, the most powerful force in the universe, share it without restraint, and know we are all riding around the sun together!
Review: A book for women who want to improve their marriage. Every page helps. - I read this book many times, so there is not ONE mistake in my comments here. I read it, I understood it, then understood it some more. I did my checks and balance on my relationship. This book was and is an eye opener! I am recovered feminist thanks to Dr. Laura's advice and teachings which I followed because it resonated with my desire to get out of this raging feminist s>>thole ("men are doormats", "it's me, me, me, and he needs to dance accordingly") and get some happiness! I wanted to see my man in real colors, to understand that we are together to be happy not to fight about whose balls are bigger. This book is telling it to women who are willing to hear -- as it is: Men want to be loved and appreciated and we, women, can give them that. Reciprocity. Desire to make each other happy, being humble as to want to accept the differences that actually make us so awesome together! This is not a book for women who do not want to accept a different perspective than theirs. This is not a book for women who refuse to see their men in a true light. This is not a book for women who do not have the desire to make a change, to better their marriages. This is not a book for women who think that kids don't need a father. This is not a book for women for whom their career stands higher than their kids, husbands, or the air they breathe. So, don't buy the book if you are not ready to open up your mind and heart and see things differently or in a better way than you are already seeing and doing them. Buy and read this book if you really really really love your husband, love being a mother and a wife, and want to solve a problem in your marriage or bring more happiness in your marriage. This book taught me so many things! No, I am not affiliated in any commercial, marketing, financial etc. way with this book as though it sounds like I did a good advertisement job. I am writing this with much gratitude to this little lady who showed me how to move my chess pieces by putting the queen next to her king and helping me win this game called "Life". I am now happier, clearer, and have more respect for my man. I am loved more. What a revival!

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #27,695 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #107 in Marriage #118 in Love & Romance (Books) #575 in Motivational Self-Help (Books) |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 3,779 Reviews |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A must for both, cross-gender communication!
*by S***N on May 14, 2020*

Ladies steer the ship carrying the emotional health of their relationship, the man helps to maintain. In my opinion this book helps layout practical concepts in a simple manner most ladies and gentlemen understand. Men tend to fix things, shovel coal, and say what’s on their mind (if it matters to them). Women often talk in code, and try to decode what the man is saying. If he's a plain talker, this often leads to misunderstanding the significance of what he said, and too often completely missing the point. Unfortunately wars have been started over missunderstandings. An adopted son (at 14, from my ex-wife’s twin), did not listen to my advice about sex. A young lady in high school picked him out to be hers, they had a child, and nine years later another. Seriously I tried working with him, but he said "she was not who he wanted to spend his life with." They were living together and began fighting regularly, irrational. After I read this book, I decided I was working with the wrong half of the equation, and I offered it to her. Six months later they were married. If you'd like more detail read on. I bought this book for myself and wish I read it when first published, but I still had much to learn. The stories are simple testimony from real people, the concepts are priceless. Everyone should be happy but not everyone is ready. This book teaches about cross-gender communication. Men should read it to understand how they should be treated, with love and compassion of course. I tell them not to give it to their wife, because she may be insulted, and never read it. She should already be perfect just the way she is, never criticize her (she’ll do enough of that on her own), and just randomly pick something you love about her to acknowledge the Goddess inside her. I tell them to simply place the book on their nightstand. If she asks, just say you heard the book can help you be a better partner, husband, friend, man. That you really love her, and want to be the best partner you can be. If she asks to borrow it tell her no Sweetheart, you’re perfect just as you are, don’t change a thing. If she continues, suggest reading it together, and she can help you understand it. I tell the woman to read the book, so they learn how to care for their pet. Honest people can work things out, and an honest man is a simple creature don’t try to change him. Just love him, help him understand how to help you, and recognize the God in him for the good things he does to please you. I was diving into every nuance by the last chapter, but found it (for a man) to be the most boring chapter of the book. She takes a really long time (talking code) to say the simple truth “If he wants ‘it’ just give it too him.” But seriously ladies and gentlemen a little sexual tension is healthy to spur the youthful exuberance of anticipation, be sure your up on “The Joy of Sex” and other more sensual or spiritual aspects of relationships. Intimacy should never be used as a tool or withheld from a good man doing his best. Remember a good man is a simple creature and he’s hard wired for simple pleasures a happy wife (I cannot express in words how hard a man will work to please his wife, even if she is less than supportive of his needs), happy life, good food, and GREAT SEX!!! Conversation and making memories are wonderful but be sure our basic needs are met. We will give our lives to you. The woman is in charge of her happiness, telling her husband (asking is much better) what she needs help with. If she is not happy, it is because she’s either with a narcissist/sociopath, or she hasn’t told the engineer she needs more coal in the engine room. (Please excuse my sarcasm, he might not be the right person. Or she is the sociopath. Character flaws do not discriminate. Note: Men and Woman sociopaths have two traits in common. They lack empathy, and take pleasure manipulating others. They are some of the nicest people you don't want to know!) The young lady quickly began applying concepts she learned in the book. Six months later they were getting married. I asked him, how’s life, he said "I couldn’t be happier." Each of four years after he said the same thing, and I stopped asking. Originally I read about 100 reviews from ladies here on Amazon. One lady's parents had a perfect marriage 40 years of bliss, still glowing after all those years. But her marriage was not as good. She read the book, and two weeks later her marriage was perfect! They say men love you like a dog, kick’em and they keep coming back for more. Hoping for love, but tolerating abuse to a point. They also say women are like cats, chase them, and they will run away. Sit still and they will come lay in your lap, and purr... nice happy life... 😇 Another lady doesn’t like the author at all, loaths her like a zombie (my adaptation), but her marriage wasn’t doing so well. A friend loaned her the book, out of respect for her friend she’s read it. Two weeks later her marriage was fine... 😇 If it’s the right person it might be the wrong time. If it’s the wrong person it’s always the wrong time. Good cake doesn’t need frosting, and frosting doesn’t fix the cake. Though a little doesn’t hurt. It’s who’s inside that counts. From the first page, “this book is not to fix all relationships... If you’re suffering from addiction, abuse, or affairs save yourself and get out.” I’m told Phil Donahue put that on the last page of his book, backwards thinking Phil. I much prefer how Laura S. ended her book, emphasizing in every way she could think of “If your man needs loving, give him prime choice, and top shelf loving!” You never want him looking for love in all the wrong places. To a healthy man food and great sex are basic needs we live for. Yes we also enjoy many other interests, but nature has endowed us with a very strong need for placing our lives, our love, and our essence in the hands of a woman who cares for us. We can fix things we understand, but emotional eddies are far too complex for most men. Too many don’t understand this simple truth. So men are abused, get frustrated, and most are outclassed whenever a woman uses emotional manipulation on them. This my friends are not the type of woman you want. Read David Deida’s “The way of the superior man” and Corey Wayne’s “The 3% man.” Western sociopolitical manipulation has perverted how men and women treat each other, by filling our media with divisive concepts, and bad role models. Simply to weaken our family structure and make sheep easier to herd. The strength and foundation of our world, depends on the love, compassion, and peace we have in our hearts. Love, the most powerful force in the universe, share it without restraint, and know we are all riding around the sun together!

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A book for women who want to improve their marriage. Every page helps.
*by C***A on February 1, 2018*

I read this book many times, so there is not ONE mistake in my comments here. I read it, I understood it, then understood it some more. I did my checks and balance on my relationship. This book was and is an eye opener! I am recovered feminist thanks to Dr. Laura's advice and teachings which I followed because it resonated with my desire to get out of this raging feminist s>>thole ("men are doormats", "it's me, me, me, and he needs to dance accordingly") and get some happiness! I wanted to see my man in real colors, to understand that we are together to be happy not to fight about whose balls are bigger. This book is telling it to women who are willing to hear -- as it is: Men want to be loved and appreciated and we, women, can give them that. Reciprocity. Desire to make each other happy, being humble as to want to accept the differences that actually make us so awesome together! This is not a book for women who do not want to accept a different perspective than theirs. This is not a book for women who refuse to see their men in a true light. This is not a book for women who do not have the desire to make a change, to better their marriages. This is not a book for women who think that kids don't need a father. This is not a book for women for whom their career stands higher than their kids, husbands, or the air they breathe. So, don't buy the book if you are not ready to open up your mind and heart and see things differently or in a better way than you are already seeing and doing them. Buy and read this book if you really really really love your husband, love being a mother and a wife, and want to solve a problem in your marriage or bring more happiness in your marriage. This book taught me so many things! No, I am not affiliated in any commercial, marketing, financial etc. way with this book as though it sounds like I did a good advertisement job. I am writing this with much gratitude to this little lady who showed me how to move my chess pieces by putting the queen next to her king and helping me win this game called "Life". I am now happier, clearer, and have more respect for my man. I am loved more. What a revival!

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great Book if you're looking to make your marriage stay together.
*by A***O on September 18, 2022*

Men are born and raised by women, and strive their whole lives to be appreciated, loved and respected by Women. Dr. Laura shows how women really have all the power in a happy marriage and gives examples of how changing your acting and thinking will improve your marriage. Dr. Laura gives MANY examples of how Men think and act and the differences between Men and Women. For the women that consider themselves "feminists" or "Modern Women", please suspend your contempt prior to investigation and read the ENTIRE book, implement some of the suggestions, and IF it fails to help your marriage, then bash away. Most of the negative reviews of this book admit that they didn't read the book or do anything the book suggested. The World-wide Divorce rate is over 50 percent for married people today, and the number of unmarried people with children outnumbers married people. So, I think it's safe to say that the todays culture is destructive to marriages and there are a lot of unhappy Men, Women, and Children as a result of this. My wife shows utter contempt for anything that used to be done in traditional marriages and thinks I want to turn her into a "1950's housewife." (She hasn't gotten past the introduction of the book.) I believe in true equality, and a division of labor. Imagine if I just came home one day and said "I just don't feel like working, you go work instead, but I'm not going to be cooking, cleaning or taking care of the children. I plan on doing the bare minimum." Dr. Laura shows how both sexes have attributes that compliment each other and shows how marriage vows are broken easily by not doing your fair share of work, or prioritizing things over the health of their marriage. She talks about the double standards Women have for Men and how one-sided it can be. She also talks about "forsaking all others" which is in the vows and most people dismiss by being too tied to their friends and extended relatives instead of their husband, who is their family (That they picked!). After 20 years of hanging in there, praying and waiting, nothing has improved. I'm not going to be standing the abuse any longer and will be separating. Better to live alone with a crust of bread than in an nice house filled with strife. I also am a human being with wants, needs, my own dreams, emotions, and thoughts. Talk is cheap. Her ACTIONS show that she doesn't care about me. Women take heed, if you show contempt and disregard a book and concepts like this, your Man will find a woman who will treat them better. It might take 1 year or it might take 20. Every Man has His limit. Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right? Men already know were damned if we do, and damned if we don't so most of us have given up talking about these issues. Listen to a Woman with a PHD in psychology and marriage counseling and read this book.

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