--- product_id: 19342719 title: "Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever" brand: "greg baer" price: "194.48 DT" currency: TND in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.tn/products/19342719-real-love-in-marriage-the-truth-about-finding-genuine-happiness store_origin: TN region: Tunisia --- # Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever **Brand:** greg baer **Price:** 194.48 DT **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever by greg baer - **How much does it cost?** 194.48 DT with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.tn](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/19342719-real-love-in-marriage-the-truth-about-finding-genuine-happiness) ## Best For - greg baer enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted greg baer brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever ## Images ![Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71xemJBM-FL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Profound and brilliant, yet incredibly simple *by A***R on Reviewed in the United States on May 7, 2009* I've read a lot of books on relationships, and this one cuts to the core of what real love is all about.I bought this book because I saw a video on Dr. Greg Baer's website, [...]. (Find the DVD collection and click on Module One, then watch the few minutes beginning at 18:00 minutes. The next few minutes changed my life in one great flash of insight.)What's the profound insight? Real love is caring for the happiness of another without expecting anything in return. The anger that arises (from our own expectations) when our partner doesn't do what we want is actually selfish and arrogant. Now, anger can certainly be a healthy emotion if I own it and recognize it as a signal that something needs to change. My anger can be productive I channel it well into working to bring about the necessary changes. But if instead of owning it, I insist on dumping my anger on my partner, then what I'm actually doing is manipulating my partner's behavior by making life unpleasant for them--through the withdrawal of my love--until they change *for me*. What we're really doing is telling our partner, "I'm not getting what I want, and it's all your fault. So I'll make life miserable for you until you give me what I want." In other words, we're paying our partner with our approval in exchange for the servicing of our needs. (The world's oldest profession is an exchange of payment for services rendered, too, which is why that ain't real love either.)Dr Baer points out very clearly what's wrong with this whole approach of tit-for-tat: it's all conditional. Who feels they're getting real love when they have to pay for it in this way?\In contrast, it's the very experience of unconditional love that transforms us, and allows us to transform our partners. It's loving out of commitment rather than reaction to how my partner happens to be feeling toward me today.One thing I love about this whole approach is that it's an extension of God's love for us. This is the essence of being Christlike. "Love your enemies" for God's sake! means to act lovingly toward another regardless of how they act toward you. That gift of dignity and respect is what will lift up the other.All else is bean counting, not real love. ### ⭐⭐ Some good Ideas *by L***S on Reviewed in the United States on May 19, 2021* Some of the ideas and suggestions are great but there's a lot I don't agree with such as discussing you and your husband with others, especially the opposite sex. I disagree with the basis of most of us have not had unconditional love. Pick and choose carefully what you use from this book. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Both are awesome and can really help your relationship *by L***N on Reviewed in the United States on May 3, 2017* Loving this book so far. Also read/listened to the parenting one. Both are awesome and can really help your relationship. These books don't concentrate so much on things you should do as much a explaining why we do things the way we do which can help change our thought processes and hearts. Then it is easier for our behavior to change. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.tn/products/19342719-real-love-in-marriage-the-truth-about-finding-genuine-happiness](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/19342719-real-love-in-marriage-the-truth-about-finding-genuine-happiness) --- *Product available on Desertcart Tunisia* *Store origin: TN* *Last updated: 2026-09-01*