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# The Menu: Life Without the Opposite Sex

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For all of human history men and women came together to form families. It may have been common, it may have been routine, but that is what they did. Generation after generation, for all of human history, men and women formed families. That is until now. Because with advances in technology, incredible economic growth, a generous welfare state, and the political movement of feminism, men and women no longer need each other in order to survive. And as much as we'd like to deny it, when given the choice, men and women are empirically and increasingly choosing to be alone. By 2030 45% of marriage-age women are forecasted to be single, rendering a same percent of men equally so. 70% of both men and women are overweight, indicating little serious interest in attracting a mate. Marriage ranks 5th place on women's priority list. And 1 in 3 marrying-age men live with their parents. And all that with crippling college debt that makes having a family a luxury most will never afford. But the solution is not to reverse or somehow undo the forces that got us here. Those political, economic, and sociological forces are simply unstoppable. Marriage is not coming back, certainly not in your lifetime. The solution is to give up hope. The solution is to stoically accept this fate. Because whether you'd like to admit it or not, only 1 in every 2 of you are going to get married (and only 1 in 8 of you who do will be happy!). And thus the real risk you face is not “never getting married” or “never having a family,” but wasting your one and preciously-short life pursuing something that is statistically unlikely to happen. Unfortunately, this dark reality leaves half the population in an existential lurch. Without family, marriage, love, or a loving spouse, what do people have to live for in life? You are here after all, and you have to do something with your 80 years of consciousness on this planet. So unless you're going to kill yourself, your existence forces you to find a purpose and reason to live. You cannot merely “exist.” And so, most people today and into the future are faced with the arduous task of finding purpose and meaning in life, absent the opposite sex. Thus, “The Menu.” Though humanity has never been to the point where women and men abandoned one another before, that doesn't mean there is not a limitless number of things life offers that gives it value. Whether it's hobbies, vice, philosophy, religion, your career, or your friends, the world offers a limitless menu for you to choose from. A never-ending buffet of things you can do, pursue, enjoy, and become during your 80 year visit here. And while it may not be what 2 million years of genetics are screaming at you to want, it's superior to falling in love and having a family, simply because it's possible. It's at least on “The Menu.” And so you face a very simple question. Do you want to spend yet another night at home, playing video games, jerking off to porn, and downing some Mountain Dew? Do you want to drink another bottle...or two...of wine while you watch yet another Hallmark movie? Or do you want to put on your big girl panties, cowboy up, acknowledge there is no one out there for you, and make this life count as much as you possibly can? You're going to die. There's no doubt about that. The question is if you're going to live. Order something from “The Menu.”

Review: Perfect "Menu" for modern life! - This book is an essential read for anyone looking at the reality of modern life. Aaron does a great job running the numbers, breaking down the truth, and offering real options. Aaron Clarey knocks it out of the park again with another great book. He writes in a way that makes complicated topics understandable & even funny! Aaron will go to the very needed truth & be honest with us 'the audience' in a way few dare to touch. Must read for adults living in this modern world. P.S. Thank you again for all your hard work Aaron!
Review: Wish I had this when I was young - As an older guy in my 60's, I can say I wish I had this when I was much younger. Reading and internalizing this book at 18 probably would've changed the course of my life. As with most men, it's not tragedy, bankruptcy, accidents, and jobs that suck that create pain points on your life line. It's relationships. Breakups. Divorce. Complicating one's life with unrealistic expectations of the opposite sex. This shows the reader that the void one feels doesn't necessarily need to be filled with another person. No one single woman can fulfill your needs and desires. That's a lot of work for someone. And that's a lot of expectations to be magically met. Read the book. Underline, highlight, take notes in the columns. Reflect on your notations the next time you pick it up and before you read the next chapter. Process each chapter before ingesting the next one. You will feel like sh*t for past mistakes. That will subside, when you realize you're not alone in the journey. You eventually will feel optimistic and have more faith in yourself. The concept of 'hope versus action' was the "face palm" moment. Keep action alive, not hope. Action gives you a reason to wake up and crush it today. Hope without action is like wanting big strong arms but never lifting weights. That ez-curl bar isn't gonna lift itself and you're not magically wake up one morning with biceps. That being said, get yourself a four-color pen. Color code your notes and underlining. Green for money issues. Red for red flags and warnings. Blue for emotional issues. And black for hard core truths. Don't forget one to four red stars to emphasize the statements that made you stop and think. That's how you'll get the best out of this book. Every parent needs to buy this for their sons. Just order it. Read one chapter per day and you'll have it done in a week. Gather a few friends and have a REAL book study group, not a virtual group. This is how you will best enjoy "The Menu". Hope this helps, my friendly acquaintances.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #466,361 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #148 in Dating (Books) #591 in Feminist Theory (Books) #3,267 in Parenting & Relationships (Books) |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 373 Reviews |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Perfect "Menu" for modern life!
*by B***E on October 7, 2025*

This book is an essential read for anyone looking at the reality of modern life. Aaron does a great job running the numbers, breaking down the truth, and offering real options. Aaron Clarey knocks it out of the park again with another great book. He writes in a way that makes complicated topics understandable & even funny! Aaron will go to the very needed truth & be honest with us 'the audience' in a way few dare to touch. Must read for adults living in this modern world. P.S. Thank you again for all your hard work Aaron!

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Wish I had this when I was young
*by G***O on June 6, 2022*

As an older guy in my 60's, I can say I wish I had this when I was much younger. Reading and internalizing this book at 18 probably would've changed the course of my life. As with most men, it's not tragedy, bankruptcy, accidents, and jobs that suck that create pain points on your life line. It's relationships. Breakups. Divorce. Complicating one's life with unrealistic expectations of the opposite sex. This shows the reader that the void one feels doesn't necessarily need to be filled with another person. No one single woman can fulfill your needs and desires. That's a lot of work for someone. And that's a lot of expectations to be magically met. Read the book. Underline, highlight, take notes in the columns. Reflect on your notations the next time you pick it up and before you read the next chapter. Process each chapter before ingesting the next one. You will feel like sh*t for past mistakes. That will subside, when you realize you're not alone in the journey. You eventually will feel optimistic and have more faith in yourself. The concept of 'hope versus action' was the "face palm" moment. Keep action alive, not hope. Action gives you a reason to wake up and crush it today. Hope without action is like wanting big strong arms but never lifting weights. That ez-curl bar isn't gonna lift itself and you're not magically wake up one morning with biceps. That being said, get yourself a four-color pen. Color code your notes and underlining. Green for money issues. Red for red flags and warnings. Blue for emotional issues. And black for hard core truths. Don't forget one to four red stars to emphasize the statements that made you stop and think. That's how you'll get the best out of this book. Every parent needs to buy this for their sons. Just order it. Read one chapter per day and you'll have it done in a week. Gather a few friends and have a REAL book study group, not a virtual group. This is how you will best enjoy "The Menu". Hope this helps, my friendly acquaintances.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Women can benefit from reading this book!
*by D***9 on July 25, 2022*

Almost 5 years ago, my husband passed away. Since I started to enter the dating market, I have found things have changed drastically! First, I thought it was me. But no, dating apps are essentially trash, and as a woman in her later years, I had to accept that the odds of finding a quality partner where not very good. However, I do have many years of life ahead of me, and I wondered “What will I do with myself?” As a woman, we have a biological need to have a partner, but I have to accept that part of my life is now over. ( I will add here as a side note, that my husband was a wonderful man, very intelligent, and a good provider. I consider myself lucky in the fact that I got more than most people will ever have.) The Menu gave me insight as to what I should do next. I was contemplating going to CDL school, and next week I will be on that path. I want to travel, make money and see what is out there. I also want to push myself out of my comfort zone. And that is what we got to do-push ourselves out into the world to find purpose, meaning and direction. I may never find another man to enjoy my life with. And you may never find the right woman to settle down with. But that’s okay! The Menu will give you useful information that you can apply to your life and to help you have a good life without a partner. Buy this book, it will help you!

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