--- product_id: 49282747 title: "Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship" price: "269.85 DT" currency: TND in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.tn/products/49282747-loving-someone-with-borderline-personality-disorder-how-to-keep-out store_origin: TN region: Tunisia --- # Science-based DBT insights Proven crisis defusing strategies Empathy-driven understanding Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship **Price:** 269.85 DT **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Summary > 📘 Decode BPD with empathy and science — your relationship’s game changer! ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship - **How much does it cost?** 269.85 DT with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.tn](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/49282747-loving-someone-with-borderline-personality-disorder-how-to-keep-out) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Key Features - • **Top-Rated & Trusted:** 4.5-star rating from nearly 2,000 readers craving clarity and hope. - • **Empathy Meets Expertise:** Written by Dr. Shari Manning, blending science with compassion. - • **Inclusive & Non-Judgmental:** A respectful guide that resonates with both loved ones and those with BPD. - • **Boundary Setting Made Simple:** Learn actionable steps to protect your emotional wellbeing. - • **Transform Turbulent Relationships:** Master powerful DBT techniques to stabilize emotional chaos. ## Overview Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder offers a groundbreaking, empathetic approach to understanding and managing relationships affected by BPD. Grounded in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), this book equips readers with practical strategies to defuse emotional crises, set healthy boundaries, and foster lasting connection. Authored by Dr. Shari Manning, it stands out as a top-rated, compassionate manual praised for its clarity and respect toward those with BPD and their loved ones. ## Description People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be intensely caring, warm, smart, and funny―but their behavior often drives away those closest to them. If you're struggling in a tumultuous relationship with someone with BPD, this is the book for you. Dr. Shari Manning helps you understand why your spouse, family member, or friend has such out-of-control emotions―and how to change the way you can respond. Learn to use simple yet powerful strategies that can defuse crises, establish better boundaries, and radically transform your relationship. Empathic, hopeful, and science based, this is the first book for family and friends grounded in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), the most effective treatment for BPD. Review: One of the best easy to understand, informative books about BPD without insulting people with BPD - I know this book is more meant for any loved ones or other family members of someone with BPD but as someone with BPD myself i actually really enjoy reading this book. I can relate and associate with allot of what's being said and in allot of areas felt i was reading about myself it's so accurate in so many ways, I felt i could really connect with the author and i am not a book lover or reader but this book kept me intrigued and wanting to read more, some books i've read in the past about BPD make me rather depressed, angry and sad as they are written appallingly. Unlike other books and online websites this book does not insult, patronise, scaremonger or anything like that, it's by far the most informative, easy to understand and least insulting/patronising book i have read about BPD, which in my opinion makes a big difference for people like me with BPD and any loved ones or other family members who want to learn more about it, it's like a manual but written in a manor that is empathetic and understanding to persons with BPD and anyone who reads it. The author of this book 'Shari Y. Manning' clearly demonstrates that she understands what she is talking about. From the accuracy of what she's talking about and the way it's written, this book just excels over other books on BPD which is sadly not easy to say as like i have mentioned previously allot of books about BPD are either outdated, somewhat incorrect, insulting, scaremongering just to name a few and does more harm than good whether you have BPD or just wanting to learn more about it. I highly recommend this book if you are looking to learn about BPD or like me want to get a better understanding of my illness, i think people will really appreciate this informative book and the way the author has written this book. Don't hesitate to buy if you want to learn more about BPD, it's like a manual and by far the best book available to date in my opinion. Review: Great read - What a great read. Gives you the perfect insight to someone with BPD.A must read. ## Features - New Store Stock ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | 36,772 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) 69 in Mood Disorders (Books) 129 in Clinical Psychology & Psychotherapy 130 in Psychotherapy & Clinical Psychology | | Customer Reviews | 4.5 out of 5 stars 1,931 Reviews | ## Images ![Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61-ylEbQOKL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ One of the best easy to understand, informative books about BPD without insulting people with BPD *by M***R on 11 August 2018* I know this book is more meant for any loved ones or other family members of someone with BPD but as someone with BPD myself i actually really enjoy reading this book. I can relate and associate with allot of what's being said and in allot of areas felt i was reading about myself it's so accurate in so many ways, I felt i could really connect with the author and i am not a book lover or reader but this book kept me intrigued and wanting to read more, some books i've read in the past about BPD make me rather depressed, angry and sad as they are written appallingly. Unlike other books and online websites this book does not insult, patronise, scaremonger or anything like that, it's by far the most informative, easy to understand and least insulting/patronising book i have read about BPD, which in my opinion makes a big difference for people like me with BPD and any loved ones or other family members who want to learn more about it, it's like a manual but written in a manor that is empathetic and understanding to persons with BPD and anyone who reads it. The author of this book 'Shari Y. Manning' clearly demonstrates that she understands what she is talking about. From the accuracy of what she's talking about and the way it's written, this book just excels over other books on BPD which is sadly not easy to say as like i have mentioned previously allot of books about BPD are either outdated, somewhat incorrect, insulting, scaremongering just to name a few and does more harm than good whether you have BPD or just wanting to learn more about it. I highly recommend this book if you are looking to learn about BPD or like me want to get a better understanding of my illness, i think people will really appreciate this informative book and the way the author has written this book. Don't hesitate to buy if you want to learn more about BPD, it's like a manual and by far the best book available to date in my opinion. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great read *by H***D on 10 March 2025* What a great read. Gives you the perfect insight to someone with BPD.A must read. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ A book to inform and advise but don’t assume all BPD sufferers are like this! *by R***R on 26 November 2017* This book was a bit too much like a text book to read and I ended up taking notes! Not all of the information and advice was appropriate or relevant to the situation I was trying to manage. However, there were sufficient helpful pointers and practical suggestions for me to recommend this as a book to a) inform about the illness and b) suggest ideas for a strategy that might help support a sufferer. Now further down the line, I would strongly recommend that you don’t over research mental illnesses. I believe that every sufferer experiences their illness in a unique way and there are greater or lesser degrees in the way that symptoms manifest themselves. Every person needs their own ‘plan’ and it takes time to develop. If you do read this book, don’t assume that every BPD sufferer presents in the same way as the extreme cases that are used as illustrations - these are extreme examples. Instead take some positives from it, adapt its ideas and maybe try some you think may suit your experience. To cope with those worst episodes, the best thing I learned from this book was (and this is highly simplified): not to judge, not to affirm negative thoughts and to just be there - often just in silence. ## Frequently Bought Together - Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship - I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality - Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.tn/products/49282747-loving-someone-with-borderline-personality-disorder-how-to-keep-out](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/49282747-loving-someone-with-borderline-personality-disorder-how-to-keep-out) --- *Product available on Desertcart Tunisia* *Store origin: TN* *Last updated: 2026-07-10*