--- product_id: 8292917 title: "Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life" price: "240.61 DT" currency: TND in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.tn/products/8292917-stop-caretaking-the-borderline-or-narcissist-how-to-end-drama store_origin: TN region: Tunisia --- # Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life **Price:** 240.61 DT **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life - **How much does it cost?** 240.61 DT with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.tn](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/8292917-stop-caretaking-the-borderline-or-narcissist-how-to-end-drama) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders are master manipulators; Caretakers fall for them every time. This book helps Caretakers break the cycle and puts them on a new path of personal freedom, discovery, and self-awareness, through the use of real stories and practical suggestions from a seasoned therapist. Review: Start with this book; it's the most comprehensive and readable - This is the most comprehensive and therapeutic book on the topic you'll find. It is well written and covers everything you need to understand about the NPD/BPD in your life. It might not be the first book you pick up on the topic, but it should answer everything you want to know and will likely be the last or only book you need. Don't be turned off by the brash cover. The author clearly grasps the dynamics of a relationship with a Narcissist and/or Borderline (frequently the disorders overlap; people can be a mix of both). The author's tone is professional, gentle and knowledgeable. If needed, you can skip through easily with the clear subheaders noting each topic. The author has a lot of experience to draw upon from working with caretakers and addresses every element connected to dealing with the HCP (high conflict personality). And now, I don't need to write a book myself :) If you're looking for where to start definitely choose this book. And good luck!! Review: Moving forward feels GOOD - I wish I had come across this resource 10-20 years ago! It is clear, concise, straightforward, helpful, healing, insightful, empowering and so much more. It is the missing piece that I have been longing for after years of counseling, self-help books, and an absolutely poor marriage complete with negative effects on the children. Having new knowledge, a new way to process information and new tools of engagement has been transformative for me - my physical and mental health and my own measure of happiness to name but a few. And that’s the point, right? For the first time in a very long time, i am in control of myself, including being a happy, whole, autonomous person moving in a positive direction despite how any other person in my life may act. I have a new career, a long-term plan for myself. Where I used to feel selfish for taking care of myself, I now prioritize it without apology. Having grown up under what I now recognize as a parent with some serious narcissistic behaviors, I was literally blind to manipulation. I simply didn't know any better. On pages 114-115, the author states that learning this knowledge means you can never unlearn it: "You are stepping into a maturing process in yourself that eventually becomes irreversible. When out understanding and our skills in the world increase and mature, we rarely, if ever, go back to being less aware or less skilled or wanting less of the good things that have come into our lives." I see things in people that I hadn't been aware of before, let along know how to respond, protect myself, or move forward. This world is rife with manipulation on multiple levels! I highly recommend the book for everyone whether or not they are dealing with an active instance of being invoiced with a BP or Nar. It should be required reading for all somewhere in high school. Oh how different my life may have been if I had known any of this in my earlier years! ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #34,092 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #21 in Popular Psychology Reference #24 in Mood Disorders (Books) #29 in Personality Disorders (Books) | | Customer Reviews | 4.7 out of 5 stars 2,179 Reviews | ## Images ![Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71YVjFrKwtL.jpg) ## Available Options This product comes in different **Media Format** options. ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Start with this book; it's the most comprehensive and readable *by A***R on April 26, 2026* This is the most comprehensive and therapeutic book on the topic you'll find. It is well written and covers everything you need to understand about the NPD/BPD in your life. It might not be the first book you pick up on the topic, but it should answer everything you want to know and will likely be the last or only book you need. Don't be turned off by the brash cover. The author clearly grasps the dynamics of a relationship with a Narcissist and/or Borderline (frequently the disorders overlap; people can be a mix of both). The author's tone is professional, gentle and knowledgeable. If needed, you can skip through easily with the clear subheaders noting each topic. The author has a lot of experience to draw upon from working with caretakers and addresses every element connected to dealing with the HCP (high conflict personality). And now, I don't need to write a book myself :) If you're looking for where to start definitely choose this book. And good luck!! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Moving forward feels GOOD *by S***R on June 12, 2020* I wish I had come across this resource 10-20 years ago! It is clear, concise, straightforward, helpful, healing, insightful, empowering and so much more. It is the missing piece that I have been longing for after years of counseling, self-help books, and an absolutely poor marriage complete with negative effects on the children. Having new knowledge, a new way to process information and new tools of engagement has been transformative for me - my physical and mental health and my own measure of happiness to name but a few. And that’s the point, right? For the first time in a very long time, i am in control of myself, including being a happy, whole, autonomous person moving in a positive direction despite how any other person in my life may act. I have a new career, a long-term plan for myself. Where I used to feel selfish for taking care of myself, I now prioritize it without apology. Having grown up under what I now recognize as a parent with some serious narcissistic behaviors, I was literally blind to manipulation. I simply didn't know any better. On pages 114-115, the author states that learning this knowledge means you can never unlearn it: "You are stepping into a maturing process in yourself that eventually becomes irreversible. When out understanding and our skills in the world increase and mature, we rarely, if ever, go back to being less aware or less skilled or wanting less of the good things that have come into our lives." I see things in people that I hadn't been aware of before, let along know how to respond, protect myself, or move forward. This world is rife with manipulation on multiple levels! I highly recommend the book for everyone whether or not they are dealing with an active instance of being invoiced with a BP or Nar. It should be required reading for all somewhere in high school. Oh how different my life may have been if I had known any of this in my earlier years! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ READ THIS NOW if you THINK you are in a relationship with a NP/BP *by T***A on May 17, 2019* I wish I had found this book years ago, or at least one year ago, when I finally acknowledged my relationship was unhealthy. Maybe I'd have that year back of my life and things would have improved in my relationship OR I'd be moving on with my life, without my partner. I wish I had known what Borderline Personality Disorder was. The information in this book is very simply delivered and yet profound. You can get through this book pretty quickly which I think is important for someone who is completely drained of energy and feeling hopeless, constantly wondering if/how things will change or improve. Here is one of the main messages in this book: YOU (the caretaker) must change in order to have a better life. You need to stop hoping and stop trying to make the BP/NP change. Prior to "Stop Caretaking" I read "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" by Lundy Bancroft. That is how I realized my husband possesses many traits of BPD. I also highly recommend "Should I Stay.." for anyone struggling in an unhealthy, destructive relationship. If you have been struggling in a relationship for years like I have, you probably have already been implementing some of the coping mechanisms outlined in this book--but it is validating and empowering to have a mental health expert telling you are not crazy, you are doing your best, and give you more tools to alleviate some of your problems...I struggle mostly with boundaries, saying no, and not giving into the BPD's demands. I have been practicing though, and it does get easier, and I don't get as disappointed, injured, or angry when he has an "episode". I also recommend getting the audio book so you can listen when you don't have space or privacy to read. It was a nice supplement to the book. BUY THIS now. Don't waste anymore time. If you have a loved one who you think is in an unhealthy relationship, give this to them. Side note: I can appreciate someone with a borderline/narcissistic personality disorder being mildly offended by being referred to in this book as " the BP/NP". However, the author is doing her best to simplify the information and get it across to the reader. 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