--- product_id: 8602307 title: "Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level" brand: "jay carter" price: "116.95 DT" currency: TND in_stock: true reviews_count: 11 url: https://www.desertcart.tn/products/8602307-nasty-people-how-to-stop-being-hurt-by-them-without store_origin: TN region: Tunisia --- # Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level **Brand:** jay carter **Price:** 116.95 DT **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level by jay carter - **How much does it cost?** 116.95 DT with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.tn](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/8602307-nasty-people-how-to-stop-being-hurt-by-them-without) ## Best For - jay carter enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted jay carter brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level ## Images ![Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61QTf7LGsOL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Meanies lookout - Easy read with so much insight! *by T***N on Reviewed in the United States on June 3, 2023* A friend had many years ago read the original version of Nasty People. In discussing our “same common enemy” he was always offering great insight as to what makes the mean people tick - then he told me about having read Nasty People and didn’t know if the book was still in print. Much to our delight we discovered that the original had been updated and expanded. Great read - layman’s terms and so informative and tells you like it is. Ends too soon, makes you hungry for more explanation about these “invalidators” and why they need to continually feed their egos. And sadly we don’t always see what’s happening - to us (!) by them (!!). Sometimes these invalidators are disguised as friends or family. I definitely recommend Nasty People and after you’ve finished you will want to reread it! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Practical insight and wisdom without judgment *by A***R on Reviewed in the United States on February 28, 2022* Iin the course of reading, I realized that Jay Carter, Psy.D. obviously has the clinical experience to back up his insights. He is conversational and to the point and offers lots of examples of how to deal with nasty people, or invalidators, and how to do it in such a way that one has the opportunity to look at oneself at the same time, (since we've all been guilt of invalidating at some point), and do it all with compassion and without judgment.This is a book about mental health and hygiene in a different kind of way, and I can see his spirituality in the explanations, such as in the way he illuminates behaviors and discourages labelling people. Instead he helps to look at behaviours, the underlying awareness necessary to empathize (hurt people hurt people), and then how to deal with these behaviors effectively. This is a very loving soul with important information to share.This book is fantastic and I could teach a mini course on this. In fact, it should be taught as a part of a larger emotional intelligence curriculum. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 4.0 out of 5 stars Good Read *by Q***M on Reviewed in the United States on January 18, 2014* I bought this book a few hours ago and finished reading it in about two hours.This book was penned as a cathartic exercise. Carter states that he was a victim first and then when he studied psychology, he realized what was happening to him. He later put his findings in book form, to help people. This is probably true of any pop-psychology book, since humans are primarily emotionally motivated. This fact makes the book very readable, and very true to life. One can relate to the facts and situations presented.This book can be a hard read for victims, because it touches raw nerves too often, but that is unavoidable and necessary for healing.As with many self help books, it identifies the situation very well, and helps put things in perspective. However, it falls a tad short in offering tips to remedy the situation. This is not to say that no such tip is offered, no, not at all. The author does give tips, but I feel they left me wanting. A little more elaboration and a few more tips would have made this an amazing book. But it is still a very good book. It certainly makes one aware of one's blind spots and that is a huge accomplishment in itself.I was put off by a subliminal theme of Judaism/Israel running in the book. The author brought up the crusades, 9/11 and the holocaust, which seemed to be imperceptibly making a case for continued Jewish/Israeli support, in the face of Palestinian genocide.(less) ## Frequently Bought Together - Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level - People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys - Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.tn/products/8602307-nasty-people-how-to-stop-being-hurt-by-them-without](https://www.desertcart.tn/products/8602307-nasty-people-how-to-stop-being-hurt-by-them-without) --- *Product available on Desertcart Tunisia* *Store origin: TN* *Last updated: 2026-06-11*