Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids (Bucketfilling Books)

Wonderful book, good for a wide range of ages. Kids, especially toddlers, have a tendency to be a bit self centered - me, me, me! I bought this book to read with my three year old and my husband, who is a third grade teacher, says he had planned to buy it for his students. Using the bucket analogy, this is a clever way to explain to children how important it is to be kind to others, giving simple examples along the way. My three year old can be not so kind to her little sister. Lately, she has been catching herself and saying things to the effect of "Oh I don't want to dip into her bucket, I want to fill her bucket" and then will give her a toy or something. Or at least will stop pushing her around! The book is definitely repetitive which is slightly annoying but very typical for kids books. This isn't a typical read and put aside type of book. It really is a spring board for conversation, as I think another review described it as. It's also a book that my three year old WANTS to read and often.As to the criticism that it does not discuss filling our own buckets... well, I think MOST kids already do that. Certainly toddlers do that all day long. So I think perhaps its not good for the overly people pleasing 8 year olds of the world but for any child who needs some gentle encouragement to think of others, this works!One last note - my grandmother used to always compliment / talk to strangers, especially if they were alone. Just something simple and sincere. And she would say "you never know if perhaps no one else talked to them all day" And she's right! Our world could use a lot more kindness and I think this is a good start.

Great book for teaching young kids about being kind. This should be a book in every child's library and every teacher's classroom-kids love it! Plus, it teaches a great lesson that kids follow-through with!

Research shows that Empathy must be taught. Empathy, learning to care about how other people feel and how our actions can affect other people negatively or positively. This book was written to help any one really no matter what age you are to make the goal of being a bucket filler not one that puts holes in other peoples bucket. The BUCKET SYMBOLIZES EACH INDIVIDUALS SOCIAL NEEDS TO FEEL LIKE THEY BELONG. Maslows Heirarchy of needs lists social needs (belongingness) right above the basic survival and physical needs such as shelter; food; clothing; warmth SAFETY etc. When a person has those basic needs met they still need more in order to be able to learn progress and be successful in life. "Belongingness" or 'fitting in' is a big motivator. Learning to fit in in ways that help others to also feel accepted and encouraged. This book and others in her set is loved by children, teachers and families - Empathy for others can promote harmony in just about every relationship and will when each person in the relationship strive to be A BUCKET FILLER! i hope you love it too.

I start every school year with the Fill a Bucket books. The concept forms a structure for classroom management. Students earn bucket filler slips. These are counted at the end of each week and tallied on a paper bucket (I found these materials on Teachers Pay Teachers). When there are 100 tallies, students earn a pre-determined classroom award. They love it, and parents love reading the slips when students take them home at the end of the week.

Having two boys at home they say some pretty out of the normal things; well my oldest came home calling his brother a bucketdipper and well my mind went somewhere else and at that point of course I had to research where this word came from ... and this is why I ordered this book. My oldest who is in Kindergarten was read this book in class and was taught that when saying or doing something not so nice thet was "bucket dipping" which hence the term "bucketdipper." Now there are many reasons thet someone can be a bucketdipper the book goes on to show many examples. The example I found extremely useful for children to understand which was when someone is hurt they hurt others; I loved this exampl of a bucketdipper. When someone is a bucketdipper they not only dip into another bucket but they also dip into their own hence not really helping themselves by choosing to be men or have a bad attitude. Now the point is to be a bucket filler the bucket fillers when filling others buckets also fill their own as it feels good to help others feel good. This book allows children to self reflect and think about how to not only earn stickers or checks for their own end reward but how to help others most importantly and feeling good about it as a reward in itself. I highly recommend the collection of these books as it is a great lesson for adults and children alike anyone can benefit from self reflection at any age.

Very sweet book

The book itself was great (4 stars), but on Kindle (1 star), they need to show ONE PAGE at a time. The print is too small to read on my iPad mini! The two pages aren't joined so it just seems lazy on Amazon's part to show two pages each time you turn the page. It GREATLY decreased the enjoyment of the book. I liked the images and premise. I am an adult, but good messages are good messages! Give love where you go and you and others will be happier! Love it!!